But I love them even more if they haven't lost this wonderful and delighting art of playfulness that can turn every man's knees into jelly. if you don't get what you want, then you are doing the wrong things.And that's where the trouble starts with love (especially for "nice guys" as I had been for far too long a time): being overtly "nice", accommodating, friendly, serious and unintrusive is equivalent to one thing that will hamper all your efforts of ever attracting a romantic partner: it is plain boring! Not to mention that it's a huge lie: nobody is always nice.I do love confident, attractive, intelligent, reliable and successful women.
But being "nice" in the face of adverse reactions is not moral, it's just plain stupid: if people liked your behaviour, they would be nice to you. If you are nice to people, if you show them "serious" feelings, you do that, because you believe that the others will respond to this in a corresponding way, too. What this reader doesn't understand, however, is that any kind of social interaction is manipulation.
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